Tag Archives: overeating and self-defeating thinking
Do You Feel Worthy of Self-Love?

Do You Feel Worthy of Self-Love?

We’ve all heard it said that you can’t love anyone else until you love yourself.  And although we know there’s truth to this old adage, most of us persist in looking for love outside of ourselves, often in all the wrong places. In one of my emotional eating groups this week, we discussed the concept of worthiness.  I asked the […]

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Overeating and Procrastination–What’s the Connection?

Overeating and Procrastination–What’s the Connection?

We all procrastinate to some extent. There are only so many hours in the day and some tasks are just plain more onerous than others. Sometimes we procrastinate because we feel overwhelmed by everything we need to get done and we’re having trouble getting started.  Other times, we feel unmotivated or tired and can’t get going. But no matter […]

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Having Trouble Letting Go of Diet Mentality?

Having Trouble Letting Go of Diet Mentality?

Many clients I work with have been chronic, life-long dieters and even if they’re satisfied with their weight and not currently dieting, they have difficulty giving up the diet mentality.It makes sense–many of us were raised in a culture where we were encouraged to weigh and measure our food and our bodies and count calories, […]

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Do you feel worthy of self-love?

Do you feel worthy of self-love?

We’ve all heard it said that you can’t love anyone else until you love yourself. And although we know there’s truth to this old adage, most of us persist in looking for love outside of ourselves, often in all the wrong places. In one of my emotional eating groups this week, we discussed the concept […]

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Do you have an inner nurturing voice?

Do you have an inner nurturing voice?

When the adult voices of our childhood are primarily warm, kind, encouraging, hopeful, validating, soothing and nurturing, we begin to develop a supportive voice within that can restore us to emotional balance when needed. As we mature into adulthood, this supportive voice becomes the voice of what I call our Inner Nurturer, our main source of validation, approval and […]

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Gain Self-Care Skills, Lose the Weight

Gain Self-Care Skills, Lose the Weight

It makes me crazy when I hear supposed weight loss experts preach that the road to weight loss begins and ends with calorie counting, daily weigh-ins and intense workout regimens. This kind of advice couldn’t be farther from the truth and, in fact, it encourages us not to listen to the wisdom of our bodies. You were […]

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All you need is love

In the previous blog article, I asked if you felt worthy of self-love. Hopefully you’re putting into practice some of the exercises I suggested and you’re beginning to connect to yourself in a more loving way. Today is Valentine’s Day and I’d like you to take self-love one step further. I invite you to be your own valentine.  […]

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Resolve to be kind to and patient with yourself this New Year

Did you make any New Year’s resolutions this year about losing weight, getting in shape or stopping your emotional eating?  If your like most Americans, you made one or more resolutions along those lines.  And now, almost two weeks into the new year, you may be wondering where all those good intentions have gone. I’ve […]

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Are you truly motivated to stop emotional eating?

Of course you want to end your emotional eating.  Yesterday, thank you.  And while you feel motivated to give it the boot, somehow, somewhere you lose hold of your motivation most days and find yourself grabbing those cookies or that bag of chips or going for seconds.  Perhaps you’ve convinced yourself that you’re weak-willed, undisciplined or just plain lazy. Most of the […]

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Loneliness and emotional eating–Part I

My client Alexis (name-changed), a forty-four year old web designer, has been single her entire life.  Without partner or child, she often feels invisible at social gatherings filled with couples and families.  Her parents passed away in the last few years and as an only child without much extended family, she often feels a painful, overwhelming and […]

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